How to Improve our Relationships

Love. For some it’s what we live for. Humans are social beings, akin to pack animals by nature and we generally flourish in community. We have an inborn desire to be part of a group and encircle ourselves with loving and supportive people who care for us. Social health is about forming positive relationships and dealing with conflict resolution fairly and productively, in personal, community and multi-societal relationships. We can offer to be of service to others, just being there for a friend in need and listening is more powerful than we know. Here are some tips to recognize the difference between healthy patterns and toxic patterns, so we can have the most meaningful lives possible!

Dawn Boiani-Sandberg is a Certified Holistic Wellness Coach, Reiki practitioner, successful entrepreneur, website designer, meditation instructor, mom and healing gemstone mala bead maker from the Colorado Rockies. She has been practicing mindfulness meditation and yoga for over 25 years.

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Matthew Perry’s Untimely Death- What We Can Learn About Love Avoidance

Examining our deepest fears of intimacy and wounding. I was never a fan of the show "FRIENDS" but reading about Matthew Perry's untimely death this morning struck a deep, reflective chord in me. He passed away in a hot tub after battling…
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5 Ways to Go No Contact After The Narcissistic Discard

"How can you hate and delete people and be on the journey toward inner peace? Forgive everyone, clear the karma. Recontact them and heal it, tell them you hold no negativity. Even if you didn’t like what they did. They are not their conduct.…
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Healing From Generational Narcissistic Abuse

Greetings, everyone! This is Dawn Boiani again from BuddhistSomatics.com, and I run a women's wellness blog. I write about, basically my personal experience, being a survivor of generational narcissistic abuse, and then, organizational…
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“I’m Sorry You Feel That Way” The Dismissive Non-Apology

AND HOW TO DO BETTER   SELF CARE IS SACRED LETTING PEOPLE GO WHO CONSTANTLY HURT, BLAME AND DEVALUE YOU WITHOUT REGRET MAY VERY WELL BE ONE OF THE MOST LIFE SAVING GESTURES OF LOVE YOU COULD LEARN One of the most hurtful and dismissive…
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Naked Honesty- 30 Important Questions to Ask Before we Commit to a Relationship

Content Reformatted and Reposted in part (2-30) from https://www.elephantjournal.com/2014/12/30-important-questions-to-ask-before-we-commit-to-a-relationship/ December 4, 2014 Author: Edie Weinstein Editor: Catherine Monkman 1.…
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On Letting Go- Anthony Hopkins

"Let go of people who are not prepared to love you. This is the hardest thing you will have to do in your life and it will also be the most important thing. Stop having hard conversations with people who don't want change. Stop showing up for…
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The Best Resources for Completely Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

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LISTENING WITH THE HEART

A few years ago, I discovered an amazing relationship technique called Imago, a transformative compassion technique developed by Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt. I offer a summary of this technique as part of our relationship…
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Twin Flames- Our Spiritual Consort Toward Ascension

The Tantric Consort: Awakening Through Relationship In our semi-apocalyptic time, it seems like many of us are going very deeply into introspection now. Very profound reflection is occurring on a global scale and our very species is on the…
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I’m Having A Secret Love Affair (With Myself) and It’s Going Viral

How to completely heal from narcissistic abuse, loss of one's faith and become a light in a darkening world.   I grew up in a rough culture on the east coast of the United States, in Newport, Rhode Island. I was raised by a teenage…
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Healthy Love Vs. Trauma Bonds

I think in these days of speed and trauma and a lot of us living in the Internet, I think we've learned maladaptive patterns of what it is to be in a healthy relationship. If we've grown up with a dysfunctional family, we may not even know…
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A Spiritual Twin Flame Connection or Just Narcissistic Abuse?

We all long for and deserve the highest love. There's been a lot of public hype recently about something called twin flames. The notion is that there's only one person out there that shares a very similar energetic signature that's literally…
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